alone but not unhappy.htm

you got that right.... people need to be happy together and alone.... find things that make them happy and not depend on others to do it for them.... we all need help in different ways but to be happy and mentally healthy ( im not talking about depression or bi polar or those issues) it starts with ourselves.... i retired and ive been asked if im happy being home... hell yeah!!!! i love the lack of stress and reading and being with my cat and with my hubby when hes home from work... i enjoy looking out the front window and seeing the people walk by and the birds and early morning butterflies...i couldnt do it before because of kids and work... now i can and look forward to it each day and i resent those things that make me leave the house ...except going out to eat!!! HAHAHAHAHA....